Shut up and get on with it

I have to admit, I am fascinated with this "Octo-Mom" craze. I am following the story as best as I can, as someone without all the cable channels. However, the internet probably more than makes up for informational sources, and that I do have. I have conflicting feelings on the subject, as I feel most people probably do. I don't agree with hateful things people say. I think she made some selfish decisions, (as everyone does sometimes). The root of it all is that she was yearning for more love. All of humanity can relate to that. Wanting love is the human condition. It is the root of almost everything we write, sing, speak, listen too, watch... It is an unquenchable desire, when we try out all the things on earth to fulfill it. That's all Nadya was trying to do. Now, she's surrounded by oodles of children with poopy diapers, snotty noses, and sheetrocked walls that used to be white underneath the crayon markings.

I do think that money played a factor. But I recently read an article (I apolgize for not having the exact source) that pretty much blamed American Culture for this "octopulet problem." Some of the words were harsh, but really made me think. I mean, most people have heard of the TLC shows---Jon and Kate Plus 8. I have seen it and it is a charming show. And of course, that family that has SEVENTEEN children?! I just had to type it in all caps for more emphasis. That is fascinating. And in this millenium of our realty-tv-voyeuristic way of thinking, most people tune in. Either to gawk and stare, or admire and relate. No matter what the reason, people are watching. So, it was no question that sooner or later some sligtly off-kiltered person would break through and try to grab some of the lime light.

She may not have gotten the TLC contract, but she is definitly enjoying many new and free products and services. Not to mention a new house. I do commend her for saying no to the porn offer. That would have just be sick, and perhaps, I wouldn't be as kind.

But who am I to judge anyone, as I have made many selfish mistakes and decisions in my time. It's not even worth it to dwell on the fact that she may be using the Federal Funds up because you know what? The children are here now. You can gripe and complain, or just shut up and get on with it. That line can go with anything, really.

I see Nadya as a sad, lonely, lost little girl. The only love that will heal her soul comes from above. (Mine and yours too.)


On a lighter note, my new favorite show is I Dream of Jeanie. I've watched it before growing up, but now, I look so forward to it every day! (WGN Channel 2 @ 3pm) I think part of it is the time period. The Mod style of the ladies. The more innocent backdrop. And Major Nelson is just always getting into trouble! (Yeah, yeah, I know she calls him "Master" but just watch it for what it is. Don't try to apply all our progressive ways of thinking to it...) I like all of those old shows. The Beverly Hillbillies. I Love Lucy. I even watch Matlock and In the Heat of the Night nowadays. I am a big fan of Channel 2. But I guess from this, you can tell that I still am not back in the 9-5 world. I am making less money now than I ever have in my life, but I am content, wanting nothing. My needs are met, and I am actually getting healthier. My school work stuff sits on my living room floor, always reminding me to work on it, but eh. It will get done when it gets done. I am thankful for this time. I know it won't always be like this. I'm not sure what it will be like...but I'll be ready and willing for whatever it may be.

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